Flirting Tips-how to flirt with women

I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women.

To begin with, women know what is flirting, and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to a typical social communication.

If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.

If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be successful with women.

I'm going to suggest that you learn how to pesake well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.

Think of flirting like playing.

Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your friends?

What's the difference between "play" and "real" wrestling wrestling?

And how do you know the difference when it's happening ... when your friend runs up and down, then while you jumps on you and tries to pin you?

The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and tells you when serious.

Flirting is similar.

If you start talking to a woman and say "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right? "in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting.

On the other hand, if you say "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men ... so I thought I would come over here and pay attention to you ..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting.

By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute".

One of the concepts that I teach is called "IDM".

IDM is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.

It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being IDM around women" because they don't want to come across as jerks.

This really cracks me up ... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.

So let me explain this whole thing a different way ...

If you know how to communicate the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of interest and sexual ATTRACTION.

When you know how to incorporate flirting in a IDM way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play, you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind, and cause her to go into a very special kind of state produced.

One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.

I think a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "you're a loser." Instead of just realizing that they need more practice or that the woman might have just been in a bad affection or even one of those horrible "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they take it personally and decide to just have it mean that tells you a failure.

But take my word for it ... once you learn how to effectively communicate and pesake in the language of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will respond to you.

Here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when flirting ... the topic of getting married and us being in a relationship ... and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample dialogue. Keep in mind, I might have a conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier.

Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"

Me: Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married?
We could leave for Vegas right now and be married
in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money. "

: Her "OK, that sounds like a plan"

Me: "But wait a minute ... do you think you can support
the both of us on your income? I really want to be
a stay at home landed ... you know, keep an eye on
the TV and such. "

Her: "Oh, no. .. I won't support you. "

Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over
between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce
you a week later and take half your money. "

: Her "You can't break up with me! I'm not
even your girlfriend. "

Me: "that's all the more reason."

... do you get what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, IDM way to create a fun affection and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting me, etc.).

If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two.

When you ask for something and she says "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say "OK, this relationship isn't working out ... I'm going to have to break up with you. "

In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where saying something she's that you don't like, and it's funny.

When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're initiating AFFLICTION, and you're a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than most men initiate.

And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME IS ON.

There are a LOT of ways you can pesake, and a lot of ways you can be IDM that DON'T REQUIRE WORDS.

If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same ... only exaggerate it.

If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a way surprised, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major "ah ha!" realization ... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that she wants you. This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you.

There are a MILLION ways to pesake like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is that you NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.

It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialogue that creates tension and sexual ATTRACTION.

If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL" conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension and ATTRACTION.

Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses.

One of the keys to flirting and creating ATTRACTION is effectively projecting confidence and indifference both in your voice tone and body language as you do it.

And in order to project these things you need to have the right understanding and BELIEFS about how male/female ATTRACTION works ... and then be able to project them through your conversation to women.

If you haven't gone and downloaded my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to get your ass in gear and do that right now. You can download it and be reading it in just BTW minutes from right now.

Get it here:

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend

David D.

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How to Make a Girl Laugh - Opposites

If you want to know how to make a girl laugh it is very useful to try many different techniques to see what works best for you so you can have at the very least a few techniques up your sleeves.

One of the main reasons people laugh is to release mental tension. This post is going to focus on using opposites of what everyone(the group you are with or just you and her) is obviously thinking or can obviously see is true. This is a very simple and easy to use technique. It can be broken down into two elementary parts. The first goes with the fact that laughing releases mental tension; by saying the opposite of what people are thinking you create mental tension. The second part has to do with knowing what everyone is thinking. This might seem like a difficult task but you will see that at the perfect times to use this type of humor it will be obvious what to say. Finally the two parts can be combined in such a way to get your entire group laughing.

Lets go a little deeper to see how to put this into action. It is starting to get hotter out around where I live. I had just left a nicely air conditioned building with my group and we began to work our way towards our car. When we got in the car it was soo hot, much hotter than the nicely air conditioned building and still hotter than just being outside. I'm sure you can remember the last time you got into a really hot car and felt the same initial discomfort we all did. After we all got in this sauna with wheels it was obvious that all of us wished it was as cool as it was just moments ago with the nice air conditioning. So i said "damn i really wish it was hotter in here!"; naturally this is the opposite of what everyone is thinking. Everyone wished it was cooler and by saying the opposite in an enthusiastic tone mental tension had been created and immediately followed by laughter!

Here is another example to help you master this easy technique. I was at a social event and noticed a girl off to the side texting with her phone. So i went up to her to introduce myself and said "You are very social be careful or you might make too many friends"; you might be thinking this guy is so lame but I'm sure someone could do much worse as I have done much worse before. This got me a laugh and we had a good conversation. There are times when saying what i said would give no results or even bad results but if you are going to say something risky you have to be able to judge the situation and her mood to make sure it will go smoothly. In this case it was clear she wanted to be social but just didn't know who to talk to so I was friendly.

So the main idea is to choose something that would obviously be on everyone's mind and say the opposite with an enthusiastic or exaggerated tone. Give it a try, see what you think. Feel free to share and ask questions :D.

Go out, have fun and experiment with learning how to make a girl laugh.

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Learning to be Funny

yesterday i was watching bicentennial man, a movie about a robot who is intelligent and self aware. since he is a robot he doesn't understand a lot of social conventions and has to learn what humor is and how to make others laugh. in his attempts to learn he comes up with a bunch of one liners which he delivers with no concept of timing but still they are quite funny because he has no concept of timing and that is not how jokes should be told. the one liners are all pretty good.

Here they are:
This Buddhist says to a hot dog vendor, "Make me one with everything."

Two cannibals were eating a clown.
One says, "Does this taste funny to you?"

How do you make a hanky dance? Put a little boogie in it.

What's a brunette between two blondes? Translator.

Why don't the blind skydive? It scares their dogs.

A man with dementia is driving on the freeway.
His wife calls and says:
"I heard there's someone driving the wrong way."
"He says, "One? There's hundreds!"

What's silent, smells like worms? Bird farts.

An engineer must have designed the human body. Who else would put a waste-processing plant next to a recreation area?

A woman goes to a doctor who says,
"Mind if I numb your breasts?"
"Not at all."
"Num, num, num."